Sunnah Visit Grave In The Morning Of Raya

          NOT CIRCUMCISED TO VISIT GRAVE IN HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI

             Usually in Hari Raya morning namely before or after Hari Raya prayer Id-ul-fitr, Muslims in Malaysia will continuous crowd filling lands cemetery to visit their family member grave. Some land cemetery changed sort of become celebration area that joyful. There is stalls which sells flowers and perfumed water to scattered and watered above grave. Many are also among we that do certain religious worships in that graveyard such as read surah Yasin, chant in fact some do tahlil ceremony there to in give alms the reward to body. There is also a small group Muslims that until bring food and drinks in area cemetery and make ceremony in graveyard. This are all act that never are taught by Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam and also not have been practised before by any all al-salafussoleh including our imam, Imam Muhammad bin Idris al-Syafi'I rahimahullah. If said matter were good more cause big benefit to Muslims, certainly they will be led us in practise. Syaikh Wahid Abdussalam Bali when disobey HariRaya Adilfitri specialization made day visit area cemetery have said:

·         First, is not Nabi indication shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam or one of the friend specialize Hari Raya to visit grave

·         Second, Hari Raya is day of joy and convenience, not day grief and cry.

·         Third, Hari Raya is day mutually visit persons which still live, and not to see people who are already dead.

-Syaikh Wahid Abdussalam Bali, 474 Errors in Faith & With Religious Worship His Collection, ms. 429

Actually Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam has outlawed to be carried out religious worship in graveyard and make as celebration area. This like the decree:

Do not you make your house the as grave. Indeed devil that runway that read for in it al-Baqarah surah.

- Hadith Imam Muslim story, no: 780

From this hadith can we understand that house that not performed religious worship like reading al-Qur'an and prayers is the same such as area cemetery. As such indirectly it tell to us all that graveyard is not place to pray like reading al-Qur'an.

Furthermore practice send al-Qur'an reading's reward such as Yasin chapter to body according to Imam al-Syafi'i opinion rahimahullah is not reach the reward to that body. Obviously in Imam's books al-Syafi'i never written on practice send reading reward al-Qur'an to this body. Subhanahu Allah's commandment gosh Ta'ala:

(In the Kitab-kitab emphasized): That indeed one who can carry will not shoulder other people' actions sin (in fact sin the effort only); And that indeed do not have (consideration) to a person unless (consideration) what is performed him. - Al-Najm (53) : 38-39

Have said al-Hafidz Ibnu Kathir rahimahullah in the interpretation book Interpret al-Qur'an al-Adzim when interpret the verse above:

Namely like a person will not shoulder such other people'

FAMILY

Do you know FAMILY meaning?

I knocked against one foreign when walking, "Oh excuse me, I not become aware "He said "Excuse me also, i do not see relative" We very polite and mutual respect, we mutually wave while pass through, but in different home on the other hand the story, on how we serve beloved person, young and old,

Late afternoon, moment cooking eat night, my little son stand in kitchen quietly, when i turn i almost violate fall, I snarl, "Do not create chaos here, go away" He pass through, the heart shattered and frozen, i unconscious, how crude my words to him,

Is being I lie in bed listen to music, I heard gentle voice come murmur, "When with people unnamed, so polite and humble I am, But with beloved family member, often scolded and insulted", "I try to go to see in kitchen floor, i meet disorder flowers", "The flowers brought him for you, he pick his own, yellow, blue and violet", "He stand quiet so that become surprise to you, you never aware the tears that come visiting",

In this moment, I feel very small once, Tears I pour like water in well, quietly I go to his room, and kneel in bed, "Get up, my son, get up honey". "Is this flowers is quoted for me? He smile, " I found this flower at the back of house" my son said. " I picked it because it beautiful maternal, for surely you will like especially the violet one” my son said again. "Forgive mother, on mother attitude today, I should not snarl you like this, she said, "Oh, mother, that does not matter, I still love mom exceeding all. I whisper, "My child, mother also your love, and the flower like mother, especially the violet one,

FAMILY

Do you realize, if we die today, our place company have a job will easily get replacement, in just a couple of days? But family that we give up, would be feeling our loss lifelong. And aware, if we finish our time into work, exceeding our family, does it was one sound investment ?

So what meaning that implied?

Do you know meaning "FAMILY"?

FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

15 Things causing DISASTER

"For contemplation with. May we get benefits.

Ali bin Abi Thalib r.a, narrate from Rasulullah SAW that he decree that; “When my follower has made fifteen things, so sure disaster will be going down to them, namely:

1.When (Maghnam) property public or country only revolving among certain elite

2. When (asset) trust made as self share (ghanimah)

3. Zakat regarded as debt burden (traded)

4. (Will) husband dominated by wife's desire (Queen Control)

5. Child rebel the mother

6. But it fraternize (obey) with (will) the friend

7. The father (on the other hand) dismissed far

8. Vociferous and fuss inside a mosque (on world reason)

9. Which became chief a race is people that fasiq (evil and disloyal to Allah)

10. A person honoured because (want avoid) the evil

11. Liquor become normal drinks

12. Silk worn as clothes (class of men)

13. Artist's category (singer) exalted

14. While music become idol culture

15. This follower end generation curse (blame) first generation (friend and Ulama)

So at the time should they waiting red wind (radioactive and poisonous gas?) or earthquake, quick ground, change characteristic human (become animal) ..In hadis Abu Hurairah storied on this matter is additional as follows."and (Qazafan) shot, throwing (bomb?)and other signs who come successively like bead item that broken the thread and fall off rapid-fire one by one”.

(hadis Tirmizi)

HEAVEN OR HELL?

HEAVEN STEP OR HELL STEP. Where You NOW?

We now enlivened by Allah, in Allah earth and in time that Allah determine. After that we will be returned, whether realised or not to one of two states immortal namely heaven or hell.

Now we running to destinations that ourselves choose - heaven or hell. Allah provide two means for us choose. Up to us to choose whether track to heaven or track to hell.

However, Allah already told us in Al-Quran, on how the pleasure life and bed of roses in heaven. Likewise explained how the suffering life and horrible experience in hell. Prophet Muhammad saw. Also strengthen more through the hadiths which still fresh read and heard to this day.

As creature that given mind's idea perfection, human can think effect and risk that would be accepted result from the action. Every something there is the causality. Allah include a person to heaven because in his life in this world, he choose a way to heaven. Likewise Allah include one to hell because in his life he deliberately chose the way to hell. Up to us want follow heaven step or hell step.

Choose and follow rout to heaven like those listed under:

· perform good deeds young days more

· Mutually help because Allah

· stay away self and family from adultery

· educate duty child religious

· setting up compulsory prayer and optional

· tahajjud amid night

· cry and be aware self through fear to ALLAH

· give alms, donate and give wakf quietly

· stick heart in mosques

· always learn religious affairs

· group prayer

· always been at religious study centre

· visit sick person

· accompanying body to the grave

· hold feast according to manner Islam

· pacify fight

· helping orphans and poor

· and matter other welfare



At the same time avoid hell step that listed under:

· do not teach religious matters child

· rich but stingy

· cheating

· take liquor, drug and that intoxicate

· hold vice ceremony

· commit adultery

· swindle orphan's property

· ease prayer

· does not produce zakat

· wishful thinking length and not want to repent

· leave prayer

· disloyal to parents

· do defamation

· despicable husband (free wife)

· despicable parents (free child)

· eat illegal wealth

· lying and lying

· use black magic

· jealous and sabotage

While we given chance by Allah to choose a way that decide our fate in future, come along together we mutually help set up amar makruf and nahi sinful that latterly already underfunctioning and have not been given priority more.

LOVE A HUSBAND...

LOVE A HUSBAND.

Based on True Story.

Seen from his age already no longer young, age which already dusk in fact already approached night. Pak Suyatno, 58 years to the diurnal pack with treat his wife that ill. his wife also already old. They marry already more 32 years

They conferred 4 people child ..from here early attempt lunge, after his wife produce child to four . suddenly the foot paralysed and could not be moved. The case happened for two years.

Step on year to the three whole body become weak in fact felt boneless tongue already not afford reactivated.

Every day pak suyatno bathed, cleaning dirt, feed, and raise his wife on sleeping place. Before going to his workplace put his wife in front TV in order to his wife do not feel silence.

Even his wife could not speak, but he always look at his wife smile, and pak suyatno still feel gain due to workplace not really away from the house, until his day could return to home to feeding his wife eat. The evening he return bathed his wife, replace clothing, and after his sunset accompanied his wife watch tv while narrate anything that he experience diurnal.

Although his wife only able to watch (not afford to give response ), pak suyatno already enough easy furthermore he always tempt and joked with his wife every time towards sleep.

This routine carried out pak suyatno approximately 25 years. Patiently he treat his wife in fact while bringing up to their four sweetheart, now their children already adult stay the serotinus which still
lecture.

One day to four children Pak suyatno gathered at rest home they while crane the mother. Because after marry they stay with respective families.

And pak suyatno still treat mother to the children, and that he want only one: all the child succeed.

With word that enough careful child that inaugural said : "Our Pak very much wish treat mother . Since we small we see father treat mother and do not have at all sigh out from father lip, in fact father not allow us taking care of mother."

Tearfully trickle the child extend the words .

"Already that our fourth time permit father marry yet , we sense mother also will give him. When slab will be enjoying father old age with sacrifice such . we already not to have the heart to do something see father like this. we would promise treat mother with ideally by change," the child's remark that
inaugural appeal. Pak Suyatno replying case that completely unexpected by the children.

"My children. . if lives at this world only for passion. perhaps father will be married more. but know with the existence of mother all of you by me. . that already more than enough. He had produce all of you."
Momentarily his throat blocked. "All of you which always I missing present in this world with a clean bill of health are treated by other people . what about your mother that still painful ?

Momentarily burst cry pack children Suyatno. They also see small droplet fall in the eye of eyelet other. Forlornly being stared him husband's eye that really love the.

Until finally Suyatno invitees by either private TV station in order to be invitation panel Spiritual Guidance after event dawn and master of ceremonies also address question to pak suyatno.

Why father can defend for 25 years treat wife which already unable do anything?

At that time Pak Suyatno also cry. Guest that present in studio that most womenfolk also not capable of arresting troubled.

There pak suyatno narrate..If human in the world this worship a love but he did not love because Allah then all will faded.

I choose my wife become accompanist live me . When he healthy she also patiently treat me. Love me with fully external heart and the inner self not with eyes solely. . and he shot me 4 people child that funny and carefully.

Now he ill sacrifice for me because Allah. And that was the test to me.

Healthy also undertermined I find the successor. . moreover he ill . Nightly I prostrate and cry and I complained to Allah above prayer mat, so that lighten my wife suffering.

And I am confident only to my place Allah report secret and all my difficulty..because HE very Listen to. .

Story that justified we follow.

Subhanallah

Phrase sign "Allah" in toad stomach

ALLAH PHRASE . Mohd Hafizan Mohd Hisham, 7, from Kampung Batu 8, Jalan Alor Star-Sungai Petani show toad that have body pattern as if phrase "Allah" under the stomach in the house here, today. -foto BERNAMA

ALOR STAR: A toad that have sign similar to phrase "Allah" in the abdomen area encountered by a farmer in the house compound in Kampung Batu 8 Jalan Alor Star-Sungai Petani.

Mohd Hisham Md Isa, 34 , said he realize oddity in the frog after his wife, Nurul Atikah Abdullah, 35, show the animal that always hide behind bag poly in their garden.

He said the frog often enter garden and he always throw him to a nearby river but it will return to same place by bag poly the.

He said writing form in the frog only realised after the child, Mohd Hafizan, 7, point the frog several times to the wife's face.

Mohd Hisham said he not intend to give the frog to anyone and no longer want remove him.
"Previously we often look in newspapers on animal discovery and strange plant but this one happen in front our own eye," he said. BERNAMA